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Japanese Etiquette Guide

Navigate Japanese customs and traditions with grace and respect

Japan Etiquette Guide For Visitors

Understanding Japanese etiquette is essential for a respectful and enjoyable visit. This comprehensive guide covers key customs and behaviors to help you navigate Japanese society with confidence and sensitivity.

The Value of Cultural Understanding

Visiting Japan offers a chance to dive into a culture rich with history and unique customs. Understanding local etiquette, like omotenashi (selfless hospitality) and meiwaku (avoiding inconvenience to others), not only prevents misunderstandings but also deepens your travel experience. Respecting these norms shows consideration, fosters meaningful connections, and helps travelers navigate Japan with confidence and sensitivity.

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1. Everyday Interactions & Public Conduct

Do'sDon'tNote
  • Bow or nod lightly when greeting, entering/leaving places, thanking, or apologizing
  • Use basic Japanese phrases like "Arigatou gozaimasu" (thank you) and "Sumimasen" (excuse me/sorry)
  • Handshakes can occur with those accustomed to Western norms, but bowing is most appreciated
  • Dress modestly in public, covering shoulders and avoiding overly tight clothing—especially if pregnant or visiting religious/cultural sites
  • Speak quietly in public spaces (trains, buses, shops)
  • Keep phones on silent or "manner mode"
  • Join queues in an orderly fashion—common for trains, elevators, restaurants, shops
  • Wait for passengers to exit before boarding a train or bus
  • Dispose of trash properly, sorting into burnable/non-burnable/plastic/cans when designated
  • Carry a small bag to hold trash until finding an appropriate bin
  • Arrive early (5–15 minutes) for appointments, reservations, or tours
  • Notify others if running late
  • Wear a mask if coughing, sneezing, or showing cold-like symptoms
  • Follow local mask norms for allergies or illness prevention
  • Smoke only in designated areas or smoking rooms
  • Carry a portable ashtray if smoking outside is permitted
  • Carry enough cash in small bills; many shops, restaurants, and temples only accept cash
  • Place money on the provided tray at cash registers
  • Say "Arigatou gozaimasu" for good service
  • Explore traditional experiences like capsule hotels, onsen, or local coffee/tea shops to immerse in culture
  • Overdo the bow or combine bowing with a handshake simultaneously
  • Initiate physical contact (e.g., hugs, casual kisses) unless you know it's appropriate
  • Wear revealing outfits in places expecting conservative attire (temples, rural areas, formal events)
  • Talk loudly on trains or buses, play music/videos without headphones, or make non-urgent phone calls
  • Cut in line, ignore queue markers, or rush the doorway before people exit
  • Litter in streets or assume trash cans will be readily available
  • Show up late or unannounced without apologizing or giving notice
  • Cough or sneeze openly without a mask in crowded areas
  • Smoke while walking or in non-smoking zones
  • Discard cigarette butts on the ground
  • Assume all places accept credit cards
  • Publicly count change in a way that suggests mistrust of vendors
  • Tip in the usual Western manner or insist if staff refuse
  • Overly rely on global chains like Starbucks when local equivalents offer rich experiences
Foreigners aren't expected to master bowing depth/duration, but a simple bow or nod shows respect. Physical contact is far less common than in some Western cultures.

2. Getting Around (Transportation)

Do'sDon'tNote
  • Line up properly on platforms or bus stops; let exiting passengers off first
  • Offer priority seats to elderly, pregnant, disabled, or parents with small children
  • Keep phone on silent, remain quiet or speak softly
  • Stand on the side local custom dictates (left in Tokyo/Kanto, right in Osaka/Kyoto/Kansai) to let people pass
  • Follow bus payment customs: pay when boarding (Tokyo) or exiting (other regions)
  • Keep large suitcases in luggage racks or coin-lockers at stations
  • Block doors, push past disembarking passengers, or talk loudly
  • Make phone calls in packed trains (except emergencies)
  • Store oversized baggage in reserved spaces without booking on some Shinkansen lines
  • Block the passing lane or walk on escalators if not common in that region
  • Walk on railway tracks except at marked crossings (dangerous and illegal)
  • Hold up bus lines while searching for change; prepare coins or use a transit card
Trains are quiet spaces. Priority seats are marked, and oversize luggage may need reservations on bullet trains. Photography of passengers without permission is frowned upon.

3. Street Behavior

Do'sDon'tNote
  • Be mindful of foot traffic in crowded areas
  • Move aside for photos to avoid blocking others
  • Find a bench or less crowded spot to eat
  • Eating is acceptable on Shinkansen or long-distance trains
  • Carry rubbish until finding a designated bin (near vending machines, convenience stores, stations)
  • Smoke only in marked smoking areas (often with ashtrays)
  • Wait for pedestrian signals, even if no cars are coming
  • Use proper crosswalks and footbridges
  • Block busy sidewalks or roads for extended photo sessions
  • Host street parties with alcohol if local regulations prohibit public drinking
  • Walk while eating, especially with messy foods or in congested streets
  • Expect public trash cans on every corner
  • Smoke while walking or discard cigarette butts on sidewalks
  • Cross roads against red lights (jaywalk)
Tourist zones (e.g., Shibuya Crossing, Gion) get crowded. Watch for bikes, cars, and pedestrians.

4. Dining Decorum

Do'sDon'tNote
  • Say "Itadakimasu" before the meal and "Gochisosama deshita" after
  • Wait for everyone's food to arrive before starting
  • Hold chopsticks correctly and place on a rest when not in use
  • Use opposite end to pick from shared dishes
  • Lift bowls close to your mouth for rice or soup dishes
  • Slurp broth noodles (ramen, soba, udon) to show enjoyment
  • Ask others before taking the "last bite" from shared plates
  • Understand izakaya may serve "otoshi" (appetizer) as a cover charge
  • Ask politely if it can be canceled (sometimes possible)
  • Say "Arigatou gozaimasu" for good service
  • Keep strong scents low, especially at sushi counters, to avoid overshadowing food aromas
  • Use oshibori to clean hands before eating
  • Leave large amounts of uneaten food
  • Burp at the table (impolite)
  • Stick chopsticks upright in rice (funerary symbol)
  • Pass food chopstick-to-chopstick (funeral-related)
  • Rub chopsticks aggressively, stab food, or point with them
  • Slurp non-broth noodles like spaghetti
  • Start eating before others are served
  • Be surprised or angry about otoshi or table charges
  • Order one serving if a menu states a two-serving minimum
  • Force money onto staff if they refuse
  • Wear heavy perfume or cologne that interferes with dining
  • Wipe face or mouth with oshibori
Dining emphasizes gratitude and minimal waste. Taking leftovers home is uncommon unless offered.

5. Visiting Sacred & Cultural Sites

Do'sDon'tNote
  • Dress modestly (avoid beachwear or revealing attire)
  • Speak in low tones or remain quiet
  • Shinto shrines: Bow before passing torii gate, avoid center path (for deities)
  • Buddhist temples: Bow or clasp hands when entering
  • Rinse left hand, right hand, left hand again to rinse mouth, spit aside, rinse ladle handle
  • Shrine: Toss coin, ring bell, bow twice, clap twice, pray silently, bow once
  • Temple: Offer coin, clasp hands, pray silently, bow
  • Check for "No Photography" signs and respect them
  • Keep phones on silent in worship halls
  • Follow rules for World Heritage/UNESCO sites
  • Stay on marked paths at mountainous sites
  • Touch valuables or art behind barriers
  • Enter marked private areas
  • Block gates for selfies or stand in the middle of paths
  • Drink from ladle or return used water to basin
  • Clap at temples or forget final bow at shrines
  • Take intrusive selfies with geisha/maiko or ring bells excessively
  • Harass sacred animals (e.g., Nara/Miyajima deer)
  • Leave stickers, graffiti, carve bamboo, or damage property
Temples (Buddhist) and shrines (Shinto) are active worship sites. Personal shrines (e.g., Shirakawa-go) are often off-limits without permission.

6. Accommodation Customs

Do'sDon'tNote
  • Remove shoes at genkan in homes, ryokans, restaurants
  • Wear provided slippers or socks
  • Use separate toilet slippers in restrooms
  • Follow staff on meal times, bath times, futon setup
  • Wear yukata (left over right) to baths/meals
  • Familiarize with evacuation routes, especially in earthquake-prone areas
  • Walk on tatami with shoes or regular slippers
  • Forget to switch back from toilet slippers
  • Wander with outdoor shoes inside
  • Miss scheduled meal times (ryokans are strict)
  • Ignore safety instructions at check-in or on room signs
Ryokans preserve traditions; staff guide if unsure. Inform dietary restrictions or arrival times. Capsule hotels also have rules to follow.

7. Bathing Rituals (Onsen & Sento)

Do'sDon'tNote
  • Wash and rinse thoroughly at shower station before entering bath
  • Use soap, shampoo, stool/basin provided
  • Bathe nude unless specified
  • Keep small towel out of water (on head or edge)
  • Soak quietly, speak in low tones
  • Tie up long hair to avoid water
  • Check water temperature before entering
  • Confirm tattoo policy in advance
  • Cover small tattoos with bandages if allowed
  • Use correct entrance (e.g., red for women, blue for men, or kanji 男/女)
  • Enter bath while soapy or unclean
  • Wear swimsuits in traditional onsens
  • Dunk or wave towels in water
  • Swim or splash in bath
  • Take photos
  • Assume all onsen allow tattoos
  • Enter wrong side, even accidentally
  • Linger if mistaken; apologize and exit immediately
Onsen are for relaxation, not swimming. Photography is prohibited for privacy.

8. Language & Communication

Do'sDon'tNote
  • Learn phrases: "Konnichiwa" (hello), "Arigatou gozaimasu" (thank you), "Sumimasen" (excuse me/sorry)
  • Use "Eigo wo hanasemasu ka?" politely before English
  • Use translation apps politely
  • Listen to station/emergency announcements (Japanese, partial English)
  • Rely solely on English, especially outside tourist hubs
  • Expect fluent English or quick responses
  • Ignore if unclear; ask officials or locals
English is limited outside big cities. Gestures or apps aid communication.